Why does my husband need porn when our sex life has always been good?

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DEAR DEIDRE: WHAT should I do about my husband’s porn habit?

We have been married for 14 years and always had a good sex life. I am 34, he is 36.

Now that I know he’s looking at porn, I’m not sure I can look at him in the same way anymore

I came home early from work one evening last week and as I went into the kitchen, I saw my husband was looking at porn on his tablet.

He quickly put it face-down but I had seen enough.

He confessed he has been doing it for a while. He says he doesn’t know why, that he loves my body and our sex life – but I can’t forget it.


DEIDRE SAYS: Many men regard porn as totally separate from sex in a loving relationship.

For them, it doesn’t mean there is any problem in their real-life relationship.

You are upset, though, and your husband needs to understand this and reassure you.

My e-leaflet on Internet Pornography Worries will help you talk to him about it and agree some new boundaries.


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