DEAR DEIDRE: OUT of the blue, my girlfriend dumped me.
She’s with someone new now but still messages me all the time.
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We were together for three years and I loved her.
She ended our relationship two years ago but my heart still misses a beat when her name appears on my phone.
She messages me when she is out with friends and even when she’s out with her boyfriend. This week she’s in Tenerife with him but is still messaging me.
I’m 26 and she’s 25. I’ve asked her: “What do you want?” She said she was happier with me but I think she’d had a few drinks.
The next day she told me I’m overthinking it all and you can’t change the past.
I’m confused, as I really don’t know what she wants.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your ex doesn’t know either, by the sounds of it. She is pulling your strings and offering nothing. You must get free.
Are you hoping you will get back together again? Please don’t waste your valuable time. I’m sorry for you – but more sorry for the guy she is now with.
Block her number, get out there and find someone new. She had her chance with you and blew it.
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