DEAR DEIDRE: HOW do I know if I am reading someone’s body language right? I think a work colleague is flirting with me but maybe I am imagining it?
When we sit close together such as in meetings or the canteen, she puts her hand on my thigh and holds it there for what seems like ages.
If she sits opposite me, she rests her foot against my lower leg. Once she wrapped her legs around mine.
I am 26 and I think she is 23 or 24. I have tried saying something to her but she just makes a joke of it.
How do I find out where I stand and what should I do next?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Either she finds you attractive or she’s winding you up. There’s only one way to find out.
Be chatty and find out what she enjoys doing at weekends. Where there is common ground – if she likes the cinema, perhaps – suggest going together. Good luck!
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