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Woman Slams Mum Who Leaves Her Baby In The Car Alone For ’10 Minutes Or More’ While She Drops Her Toddler Off At Nursery… So Who’s In The Wrong?



A WOMAN has slammed another mum for leaving her baby in the car when she drops her older child off at nursery – and it’s sparked a fierce debate.

Rockandrollwithit took to Mumsnet to ask if she should report the mum for leaving her nine-month-old son in the car alone, sometimes for “10 minutes or more”.

Getty – Contributor A woman has criticised another mum for leaving her nine-month-old baby in the car alone for 10 minutes while she does the nursery drop off

She wrote: “Every morning for the past week or so when I’ve dropped my three year old at preschool I’ve noticed a baby left in a car on its own outside.

“I have a six month old as well as my three year old so I know how much of a faff it can be doing the drop off.

“AIBU (am I being unreasonable) to think the baby shouldn’t be left in the car?

“Car is parked right at the corner of a busy junction on double yellow lines – it’s a 2 min walk away. There’s no way she could see the baby as you have to go round the corner.”

Getty – Contributor Some agree it’s a dangerous move, but others think she should mind her own business

The mum explained that she’s thinking of having a word with the nursery manager, but her husband thinks she should “stay out of it”.

The issue has divided opinion, and racked up more than 180 comments in response, so where do YOU stand?

Some mums agreed with her husband, like kerryweaverscrutch who said: “It’s really not your business, and its not like its any harm.”

While PiggyPoos wrote: “I’ve done it but it’s been parked on a square with eyes on and a quick drop in.

“To be honest it’s a stretch to say the baby is in danger isn’t it? The other mum has assessed the situation and is happy with it.”

Steeley113 said it was “no different to paying for petrol or nipping cash point.”

And Rumpledfaceskin added: “I wouldn’t get involved myself. I think it’s only illegal if it’s deemed as placing them in harms way”.

Is it illegal to leave your child alone in the car?

It IS illegal to leave a child alone – if doing so places them at risk. UK law doesn’t give a specific age or situation for this, leaving the decision making down to the parents. The NSPCC, however, advises that kids under the age of 12 are rarely mature enough to be left alone for a long period of time. The charity adds that babies, toddlers and young kids should NEVER be left alone. Chris Cloke, of the NSPCC, told the Hull Daily Mail: “When left alone in a vehicle, young children can very quickly start to get anxious and distressed. “Even if they’re sleeping peacefully when you leave they could well wake up and get very upset when you’re not there to look after them. “They would not be able to protect themselves in an emergency and may even try to leave the vehicle to find you.”

But others were on the mum’s side. MrsPreston11 said: “I agree that it’s not right. And yes, would probably have a word.”

While QueenDramaLlama wrote: “Would you leave £1000 in cash on show in your car for 10 minutes? No? Then why on earth would you leave your baby!”

And Birdsgottafly added: “I would report it. There is nothing more important than looking after your under one year old. You don’t put them at risk.”

Carryondoctor, meanwhile, said: “Concerns about the baby being kidnapped or the car being hit are one thing, but the most likely is that the baby could get really upset.

“I would hate to think of my baby crying for 10 mins or so and nobody being there to soothe her.”


Here Are The Top Beauty, Fashion And Lifestyle Items Of The Week… From A Marble Clutch To Floral Perfume




THIS week, hop to the high-street and pick up some treats to celebrate the imminent start of Spring. Prada Candy Sugar Pop, £69 for 50ml EDP, John Lewis


How cute is the bottle? Plus we love the summery floral scent

We’ve found a pair of sandals for just £12 which will have you dreaming of warmer weather.

Or get your dressing table Instagram-worthy with a stunning Prada perfume and unicorn inspired bronze.

If you’re having friends over, there’s no need for boring white china – serve up the perfect afternoon tea with a floral cake stand and cute slogan mug.

And we found a stunning marble clutch bag which will take you straight into Spring.

Cake stand, £50, Sara Miller

Show off this beautiful bird and floral print cake stand any time you fancy a sweet treat with your tea Samsung Rose Pink Galaxy S8 64GB, £44 per month on EE

Rose gold will never get old. FACT. Pick up this phone and go matchy-matchy with your jewellery Jeans, £35,

It’s all about indigo denim this season, the darker the better. This belted pair will be super-flattering Bag, £49.99, Zara

This colourblock marble clutch will instantly brighten up any outfit Mug, £12, Oliver Bonas

What better way to drink a cuppa than with a statement mug reminding everyone how great you are? L’Oxygéné Oxygenated Nail Lacquer in Hollywood Rose, Maliblue and Sunset on Venice, £14.50 each, Nailberry

Channel West Coast vibes with one of these vibrant shades – each named after an LA hot spot Sandals, £12, Matalan

These burnt-orange sandals will be the perfect addition to any spring/summer wardrobe. Wear with a pair of glitter socks for an extra fashionista edge

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From Rocking The Red Carpet To Hanging Out Backstage At Glastonbury, Jo Whiley, 52, Really Is On Fire Right Now




ALTHOUGH this year’s Brit Awards will be remembered for Dua Lipa’s candy-floss ballgown, Este from Haim “interview-bombing” Cheryl and Liam and Stormzy laying into Theresa May, there was someone else who caught our eye last month.

Wearing a sparkly Roland Mouret dress and Spice-Girls-inspired platforms, Jo Whiley not only looked half her age, she was also one of the best-dressed of the night. Whatever the 52-year-old mother of four is having, we want some.

Rex Features At this year’s Brit Awardas, wearing a sparkly Roland Mouret dress and Spice-Girls-inspired platforms, Jo Whiley was one of the best-dressed of the night

We’re not sure how our new style crush slipped under the radar for so long – perhaps because she is best known for sporting mud-splattered Hunters and a poncho at Glasto. She joined Radio 1 in 1993, has been one of the most familiar voices of our music-listening lives, and was the first female DJ to present the Top 40 – but she’s certainly not just a face for radio.

Back in the ‘90s, she was the Top Of The Pops presenter we all wanted to be. Wearing midriff-flashing vests and combats as she chatted to the likes of Blur and Oasis, Jo was the ultimate I’m-with-the-band ladette.

In 1991 she married music exec Steve Morton, and the couple now live in Northamptonshire, where she grew up, with their four children – India, 25, a cook and food stylist, Jude, 18, Cassius, 16, and Coco, nine. Although she regularly tops the polls for the sexiest voice on radio and counts everyone from Bono to Chris Martin as a mate, she says she’s happiest pottering about her garden.

So what’s the secret to looking this smokin’ in your 50s? A one-time county-level swimmer, Jo is now a keen runner.

Back in the ‘90s, Jo Whiley (right) was the Top Of The Pops presenter we all wanted to be

“I watch what I eat and go to the gym, but being on TV now is an amazing incentive,” she has admitted. “Saying that, I can only go so long without coffee and a croissant.”

In 2014, her Sport Relief challenge to walk, jog and run on a treadmill for 26 hours was so impressive, Coldplay alone donated £260,000.

Jo looked almost suspiciously fresh-faced at the Brits, yet she swears she’s not been under the knife: “Occasionally I’ll say: ‘Oh god, I really should do something about the wrinkles around my eyes,’ and my kids and husband will shout: ‘Don’t you ever do that!’” she has said.

“They say they’re my laughter lines and they would hate it if they weren’t there. You have no choice about getting old and you just have to go with it.

Instagram/Jo Whiley Jo enjoying another festival

“The thing I’m incredibly grateful for is my health. The older you get, the more you see people’s bodies failing and the more it makes you appreciate what you have.”

And while her Roland Mouret number was total fashion inspo, Jo says she doesn’t always get it right. “I once wore a radical green dress to the NME Awards. As I was about to leave the house, my husband said:

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Earn Street-style Cred With These Burberry-esque Checks, Baseball Caps And ‘ugly’ Trainers




GIVE your wardrobe a 90s makeover and make like a street style blogger in Burberry-style checks, baseball caps and ‘ugly’ trainers.

Add a bumbag, and 90s style is officially back for good!

Jonas O’Sullivan

Make like a city slicker in a nineties suit and trench combo.

The more layers, the more important you will look!

Kea wears:

Mac, £129, Linea at House of Fraser Coat, £69.99, Zara Shirt, £39.99, Zara Trousers, £29.99, Zara Sunglasses, £1, Primark Bag, £19.99, New Look

A plastic rain mac will give your wardrobe an instant update.

Try wearing one over a bright hoodie for a total 90s look

Jonas O’Sullivan

Chiara wears:

Mac, £29.99, Zara Hoodie, £17.99, Zara Shirt, £29.99, Zara Skirt, £35, M&S Collection at Marks & Spencer Cap, £20, New Era Bag, £19.99, New Look Trainers, £95, Dune

Nineties sportwear is totally cool right now.

A logo will give you a stylish head start.

Jonas O’Sullivan

Kea (left) wears:

Jacket, £69, M&S Collection at Marks & Spencer Top, £70, ASOS X Umbro Trousers, £45, Next Cap, £25, New Era Sunglasses, £1, Primark Bag, £19.99, New Look Trainers, £49.99, Mango

Chiara (right) wears:

Mac, £39.99, New Look Jacket, £34, Topshop Trousers, £39.95, Gap Cap, £15, M&S Collection at Marks & Spencer Bumbag, £55, Vagabond Trainers, £49.99, Zara

If a classic trench is not your style, try a brightly coloured mac and just add a bumbag for a total yuppy vibe.

Jonas O’Sullivan

Kea (left) wears:

Mac, £49.99, Zara Jacket, £35 Shirt, £25.99, Zara Trousers, £30, Topshop Cap, £17, New Era Sunglasses, £16, River Island Bumbag, £12.99, New Look

Chiara (right) wears:

Mac, £65, Principles at Debenhams Jacket, £79.99, Mango Trousers, £35.99, Mango Top, £39.99, United Colors of Benetton Cap, £20, New Era Sunglasses, £4, Primark

Check, Check, Check! Checks are BIG business this season.

The high street has gone crazy for them, and so have we.

Jonas O’Sullivan

Chiara (left) wears:

Mac, £89, M&S Collection at Marks & Spencer Jacket, £69.99, Mango Trousers, £35.99, Mango Hoodie, £39.95, United Colors of Benetton T-shirt, £16, Miss Selfridge Cap, £20, New Era Sunglasses, £14, River Island Bag, £12, George at Asda Trainers, £59.99, Mango

Kea (right) wears:

Mac, £110, Weekday Jacket, £59.99, H&M Hoodie, £24, Next Trousers, £10, Primark Sunglasses, £1, Primark Bag, £17.99, New Look Trainers, £49.99, Zara

Dress up slouchy joggers with a cool outsize blazer for a total nineties vibe, and add a cross body bag to finish the look

Jonas O’Sullivan

Kea (left) wears:

Jacket, £69.99, Zara Top, £15.99, New Look Trousers, £29.99, H&M Sunglasses, £1, Primark Bag, £12.99, New Look

Chiara (right) wears:

Jacket, £79.99, H&M Hoodie, £116, Gymphlex Trousers, £20, Pretty Little Thing Cap, £20, New Era Sunglasses, £45, Quay Australia Bumbag, £55, Vagabond Stockists

ASOS X Umbro




George at Asda



House of Fraser


Marks & Spencer

Miss Selfridge

New Era

New Look


Pretty Little Thing


Quay Australia

River Island


United Colors of






Photography Jonas O’Sullivan Hair Dino Pereira, using L’Occitane Make-up Pascal Marin using Nars Stylist’s assistant Maddie Burrough Models Chiara & Kea at M+P Models

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